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来自社区 |斯坦福大学应该为超越性教育感到自豪
《超越性》的导演艾德·布丽安娜·布斯 (Ed Brianna Booth) 讲述了该项目在过去十年中的影响。来自社区的帖子 |斯坦福大学应该为《超越性爱》而感到自豪，《超越性教育》首先出现在《斯坦福日报》上。
来源:斯坦福大学日报Brianna Booth, PhD, served as the first Director of Positive Sexuality at Stanford from 2016-2026. Her work has been guided by the belief that we can build a more intimate world.
For the past 10 years, I have led Beyond Sex Ed (BSE) as a required part of New Student Orientation. University administration chose to discontinue it this year.随着它的突然结束，我想解释为什么疯牛病是斯坦福大学教育的重要组成部分，也是使我们集体发展中的一个发育迟缓领域走向成熟的创新。
BSE 为学生创造了一个环境，让他们成为有道德的人，能够建立健康、尊重和繁荣的人际关系，这不仅关系到他们未来对世界的影响，也关系到他们创造的校园生活质量。
BSE 的目的很简单：练习以深思熟虑、诚实的方式谈论人类性行为，并在具有不同背景、世界观和经历的人们组成的社区中这样做。
The alternative is to do what we’ve always done, which is to keep sexuality in the shadows.当性不能与生活的其他部分融为一体时，它就会成为众所周知的床底下的怪物，它不仅潜意识地塑造我们的生活，而且塑造我们所生活的世界和校园。
We become pushy and aggressive because we weren’t taught how to hold and communicate our desire. We make careless comments because we were trained to use humor to deflect discomfort. We rely on alcohol or other substances to push past embarrassment and shame. We treat people like objects to avoid the vulnerability of true intimacy. We perform a role we’ve seen in porn or Hollywood instead of being our authentic selves. We let our sexuality go dormant because of disappointing experiences. We bury our painful stories, burdening us and our relationships.
简而言之，我们伤害了其他人。 We hurt ourselves. Unhealed pain gets passed onto our children, and the cycle continues.
That’s something I believe Stanford should be proud of.